30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself (#8 - #11)

8)Stop berating yourself for old mistakes.

 – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.

.: aku x rasa menyayangi seseorang itu adalah salah.  kasih sayang berhak utk sesiapa jua. i'll never blame on d person or the love itself. both hv special place in my heart. but i do cry about the wrong things. yeah, i hv to stop berating myself for all d mistakes. aku bkn malekat. ambil yg jernih, n belajar drp yg keruh. my future is there to come. i'm eager to know what's next (:

9)Stop trying to buy happiness.

– Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.

.: x dak duit pn nk buy if there's a price tag on it. sob sob. tp tu la, Alhamdulillah.. Allah kasi free je bnd2 tu smua. xperlu nk beli pn. ahhh.. indahnya..

10)Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness.

– If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else. Read Stumbling on Happiness.

.: OK, i hv to be happy. even if i'm alone, i m not lonely. i m hepi where ever i am, insyaAllah. (:

11)Stop being idle.

– Don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.

.: *sigh* aku ni mmg jenis yg suke gelabah risau x tentu pasal. smua pn aku nk risau. thinking too much. so ok, aku rasa advice ni bagus utk aku. stop being idle. i hv to move forward. take a risk. aku xbley berada zone selesa sentiasa. melainkan zone tu menjanjikan peningkatan utk aku. baiklah!