"Al-Quran teaches us a way to love and to act with creation that is based on the love and trust to Allah.
What should we expect from marriage? Never expect creation to complete you, to feel you, to fixed u. When you get married, you think it in bizarre way - you expecting human being can complete you. Don't be a beggar to a creation. You'll be more generous in love if you love for the sake of Allah - trust Allah - not depending on someone to give love, to give wealth, to fixed you, to be your saviour. Go to Allah, not him/her. Human is not perfect." - Yasmin Mogahed, Observation of a Heart. — at Putrajaya International Convention Centre.
Alhamdulillah, went to this Raudhah (majlis ilmu adalah taman taman syurga, aite? hehe) last Saturday with friends.
Sebelum ni selalu mengangankan marriage yg mcm cinderella, snow white etc that will end with : they live happily ever after dan mengangankan kesempurnaan. Sedangkan kita terlupa, our (future)partner(who? i also wonder who is he. hahaha) is also a creation - that will never be perfect. We seek perfection on creation, not creator - so bad me.


2 comments:
Pada aku,
bila dua insan berjodohan, mereka melengkapkan antara satu sama lain.
Kita asal tidak sempurna, penamatnya juga tetap tidak sempurna, tp perjalanan menuju kesempurnaan utk kehidupan akhirat lebih bermakna.
Perggghhhh! Ayat susun baek punya!
yeah, true indeed, Cero. kadang kita perasan bagus, duk harap org macam kita konon2.. padahal... diri sendiri pun xde la bagus sangat. kah!
well..nobody's perfect. period.
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